F.A.Q

What do we bring?

We suggest casual clothing such as a wind breaker and flat sole shoes with light colored soles. Camera, sunscreen, sun glasses, hat and other personal objects are recommended.

What if I get motion sickness?

We recommend checking with your doctor or pharmacist first and taking Dramamine at least 2 hours before departing the dock. It will not work if you wait and take it while underway. Wrist bands and behind the ear patches also work. Check with your pharmacist for best advice for your particular situation.

What about food and beverages?

Keep in mind that the trip usually takes 1.5 – 2 hours, you are welcome to bring your own food and beverage. Alcohol for those 21 years or older is welcomed. Please be responsible.

What do I wear?

Conditions can change rapidly on the water. You should bring a long sleeve shirt and pants to protect yourself from the sun and a jacket in case it gets cool. A soft rubber-soled shoe, sunscreen, polarized sunglasses and a hat or visor are also recommended.

What kind of suntan lotion should I wear?

Tanning oils and other oil-based lotions are not allowed on the boat. They stain the cushions and make the deck slippery. There are many water-based sunscreens and blocks that provide excellent protection without the mess.

How many people can I take?

We offer 3 packages;

  • Captains Ceremony- arrangement would be made to pick up the cremated remains and a service is conducted by the Captain. There are no observers.
  • Economy – up to 6 people can attend on our 27 foot boat. With 6 this boat is a tad snug.
  • Grand – 6 – 35 people can attend on our 42 foot vessel

How should I Package and Ship Cremated Remains?

The United States Postal Service offers the only legal method of shipping cremated remains. You must ship cremated remains using Priority Mail Express service with label 139.
There are specific requirements for preparing, packaging, and shipping human cremated remains. By following these requirements, you can be confident that you have done everything you can so that your loved one’s remains can arrive at the intended destination safely.

Packaging

We recommend that you consult with a licensed funeral director to help you select the best container. You will need padding and two containers — an inner container and an outer container: The inner container must be strong and durable and be constructed in such a manner as to protect and securely contain the contents inside. It must be properly sealed so that it is sift-proof. A sift-proof container does not allow loose powder to leak or sift out during transit. While not a requirement, we recommend that you put the sift-proof container in a sealed plastic bag.

If you are shipping cremated remains in a decorative vessel or urn, use proper padding to keep the container stable and prevent breakage due to processing and transportation. For example, wrap or cushion the container with foam peanuts or air bubble wrap. The outer container must be strong, durable, and sift-proof. We recommend that you line the shipping box with plastic or other material that will prevent leakage in case of damage. Insert your inner container into the shipping box and add padding to the bottom, sides and top to prevent movement. Make sure there is no movement of contents within the shipping box. Before closing and sealing the shipping box, add a slip of paper with both the sender’s and addressee’s address and contact information inside the box. If, for any reason, the address label on the box is obscured or lost, postal employees will still be able to identify the sender and receiver of the package. We recommend you use a Priority Mail Express box. The Postal Service offers these boxes for free.

To make sure the Postal Service can identify your loved ones cremated remains during processing and transportation, mark the identity of the contents on the address side next to the shipping label and use the Postal Service Cremated Remains label (Label 139), which is available at your local Post Office. Alternatively, we can send you one as well.

Is there anyone else on the boat other than the captain?

Yes, these is a mate who will attend to your needs, help you board, stow your gear and is there to assist in the ceremony should you need assistance.

Is it okay to spread flowers over the water?

Flowers and any other biodegradable items are okay to leave behind.

What about our loved ones favorite songs?

Depending on your device, our boats are equipped so you can plug your phone into our stereo system. You can also bring a CD for us to play if you prefer.

SwanSong Burial at Sea was founded by Paul Cuoco and his son, Greg Cuoco, after the death of a close family member. This family owned and operated business aims to bring closure to families and friends who have lost loved ones. Our goal is to bring your loved one to their final resting place with the utmost respect and dignity.

Services we offer

  • Attended Ceremony
  • Captain Ceremony
  • Anniversary Commemorative Trips

 (339) 933-1816